Kitty Hollywood reviews Tea and Sympathy.
1956, MGM
Director: Vincent Minelli
Starring:
Deborah Kerr
John Kerr
Leif Erikson
Darryl Hickman
This is a poignant, tender tale examining the concepts of love and masculinity. Truly controversial in its time, the film now is a fascinating glimpse into a world that really isn't all that far away from the one we currently occupy.
I had heard of this film but, times being what they were back then in the 80's and 90's I had to scour the television guide on a regular basis to get a glimpse of this film. Ah, the internet.
In the end, the first time I saw any of this film was when I went to see 'The Celluloid Closet'. It is the most fascinating documentary about the depiction of LGBQTI in Hollywood films (both positive and negative) and utterly opened this naive little bunny's eyes. Find out more here.
Like many films that were stage plays first, this has a slightly staged feel about it. I don't mind this - the claustrophobic feel that you get from the film works very well with the subject matter. Check out this blog post for what I consider to be a really great take on the film.
The costumes in this film were done by Helen Rose, who was the head of Costume at MGM at the time. Helen Rose was an extremely prolific and successful designer both in film and then in then later she opened her own design business. She is perhaps best known as the designer of Grace Kelly's wedding gown.
And finally, Darryl Hickman. He is one of those people who, as soon as you are properly aware of them, they start popping out at you from all over the place. I had no idea he was in so many films - or indeed, had gone on to be such a success behind the screen. Here's a fascinating double shot of him and his more televisually famous brother Dwayne...
I was surprised and moved by this film. As a guy who was often teased or slighted as not being manly enough, I could really sympathise with Tom. To the point that I found it uncomfortable to watch at times.
ReplyDeleteI love your analysis of the film though - and you've let me expand my understanding of the characters out from Tom, and to all the main cast, and how desperate and lonely they all are. Thanks for that.
Thank you. I think perhaps there is nothing more reassuring in life than knowing that there are other people out there like you. I'm so very glad that you liked this film.
DeleteKitty Hollywood, I love this thoughtful review and found it very affecting. I enjoyed hearing so much more than I had previously known about its stars and director. I love the movie. I saw it in my youth and a few years ago. It is one of my stand-out movie memories. On both occasions I found it very poignant in its depiction of such terrible loneliness. Thank you!
ReplyDeleteThank you! I am truly touched. I do love this film - and if it brings back happy memories for you then all the better.
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